Friend Group VS. Cliques

It's important to me that my children know how meaningful "seeing someone” can be. People who took a minute to look outside their comfort zone to welcome me in aren't forgotten. A few weeks ago Kevin said, "mom I think friend groups are okay." I answered, " me too. I think friend groups are special." We ended up having a sweet discussion about the difference between a friend group and a clique. I've always discouraged cliques. Cliques are exclusive. Friend groups are more readily inclusive. They've heard my stories. I am a slow to warm up type. Mingling is my enemy My 3 favorite remedies: 1. Avoid large group parties and settings. 2. If you fail to avoid look for someone alone that looks as miserable as you. Befriend them and we both feel better. 3. Find a seat in a quiet corner and try to act comfortable and casual. https://www.parents.com/cliques-definition-risks-prevention-8665363